Shortlisted
UK Startup Awards 2026
Digital Startup of the Year

Loss doesn't only happen to one of you.

We Are Together is the first app designed to support both partners through pregnancy loss. Not just the person who carried it, but the person standing next to them too.

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Miscarriage support
Free for everyone
You don't have to go through this alone.
Support shaped by people who have been through it. For both of you.
How are you today?
James checked in today
He's feeling "rough". He left a note.
The Physical Reality Nobody Talks About
You're Not Overreacting

Early prototype. The app is in active development.

The reality
1 in 4
pregnancies end in loss. 23 million families a year. 44 every single minute.
The Lancet, 2021 · NHS England
Voices heard so far
45+
Real experiences shaping what we build
Our difference
Both partners.
From day one.
Not an afterthought. Not phase two.
In active development
Web-based, global
Built around 1 in 4. Designed for both of you.

In Partnership With

Kon-ick and Laura, founders of We Are Together
2025
When everything changed
Our story

We built this because
nothing else existed.

Kon-ick and Laura tried fourteen times. They went through IVF. They held onto hope for years. In December 2025, they lost their pregnancy at six weeks. The support that should have been there wasn't.

The app Laura had been using throughout the pregnancy didn't acknowledge what had happened. It kept sending Kon-ick tips about sex and reminders about hot water bottles while Laura was still physically going through it. The doctor's response, when told the pregnancy had ended, was a single word. "Oh." No leaflet. No signposting. No warmth.

On Boxing Day, Kon-ick started sketching out what We Are Together could be. On 2nd January 2026, they bought the domain together and got to work.

What we're building

The support that should have already existed.

1 in 4 pregnancies ends in loss. That's a lot of people going through one of the hardest things imaginable, and mostly doing it without nearly enough support.

After their own loss in 2025, Kon-ick went looking online to see if anyone else had felt the same way. He found hundreds of stories. Couples feeling abandoned. Partners with no idea what to say or where to turn. People grieving quietly because nothing in the world around them was built to hold it.

We Are Together is being built for those people. The ones the existing apps, GPs, and group chats don't know how to reach. Both halves of the couple, not just one.

Couple sitting together in silence
Two people holding hands
Private by design

Your data is yours. We mean that.

The information you'll share with We Are Together is some of the most sensitive a person can hold. Pregnancy data. Loss data. How you really feel on a Tuesday morning. We treat it that way, from the database up.

01

Held with the care it deserves

Pregnancy data. Loss data. How you really feel on a Tuesday morning. We treat all of it like the medical-grade information it is. Encrypted, GDPR-first, UK-based.

02

Your data is here to support you

What you log only ever gets used to make the app more helpful to you and your partner. That's the deal. Anything beyond that, we'll always ask before, never assume.

03

Wipe your history any time

One tap to delete what you've logged. One tap to close the account. Your data leaves with you. That includes everything your partner saw too.

GDPR-first. UK-based. Full policy published before launch. If you want to know how something works under the hood, ask us at hello@wearetogetherapp.com.

For both of you, because grief doesn't have a gender.

Everything we build comes from real experience. Two short, anonymous surveys. One for the person who went through the physical loss, one for their partner. Every answer directly shapes what We Are Together becomes.

For the person who experienced the physical loss

You shouldn't have to feel alone in this.

So many people have been through what you're going through and wished they could read someone else's story, just to know they weren't on their own. We're building a space where those stories live, where you're met with understanding instead of a pop-up telling you to upgrade.

Anonymous · GDPR compliant · 7 to 10 minutes

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For the partner

Your grief is real too.

Partners get told to "be strong." To focus on her. Their grief gets put in a box and nobody asks how they're doing. We Are Together refuses to let that happen. Your experience matters just as much, and we want to hear it.

Anonymous · GDPR compliant · 7 to 10 minutes

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